Can I Steal You For A Minute?

Welcome to the ultimate podcast for reality dating TV devotees! Join our hosts, Indra Raj and Mary Bianco, your go-to pals for recaps and spicy gossip on all the top reality dating shows, including Bachelor Nation, Love is Blind and Love Island UK. They’ll dish on each episode while it’s hot, and keep you in the loop with all the cheeky updates on your favorite past and present reality TV couples. It’s a reality dating podcast party you won’t want to miss, where the drama is hot, the love is wild, and the fun never stops!

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Episodes

Wednesday Jan 21, 2026

We’re back for more Traitors-talk, including our thoughts on the Rappaport/Colton showdown, America’s newest sweetheart Rob R, and some predictions for where the season might be headed.
 
We also dive into the newest season of Love Island All Stars, which is finally streaming in the US on Peacock! While things are still “early days” and we’re waiting for things to really heat up, we’re happy to report that Scotty is sufficiently doing his job as a bombshell and exciting couplings and drama should be on the horizon.
 
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103. The Traitors S4 Ep1-3

Wednesday Jan 14, 2026

Wednesday Jan 14, 2026

The only good thing about January is the gift of a new season of THE TRAITORS!!! We break down our thoughts on the first three episodes, including the things we love, the people we hate, and all the things we didn’t expect. 
 
Additionally, Mary gives an update on Baby Eden! And we chat about the status of Love Island All Stars after the fires in South Africa, recent power outages, our thoughts on recent Viall Files drama in the news, and more.
 
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Thursday Jan 08, 2026

Happy 2026! And CONGRATS to Mary and mommy’s little meatball, Eden! Mary gives us the update on becoming a new mom. Then, we discuss the lackluster conclusion of Love Island Australia Season 7, our general thoughts on reality dating shows in 2025, and predictions for what we might see in the coming year. We also preview the upcoming season of Love Island All Stars and Traitors.
 
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Wednesday Dec 10, 2025

We’re back after a little break and…. Mary is STILL pregnant! We get the update on Mary’s journey to becoming a mom (so soon now!), and Indra recounts the bizarre and surreal events of her Thanksgiving break. And then, we talk about the past few weeks of Love Island Australia! We drop in on all the biggest moments, including shocking dumpings, ruthless Hotel Amor happenings, a delicious movie night, and the demise of almost every couple in the villa.
 
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Tuesday Nov 18, 2025

It’s our 100th episode!!!! And, of course, we forgot to celebrate. But, we did get to talk about the current and very delightful season of Love Island Australia. We discuss some of the big cast dumpings this week, the new bombshells who have or will likely cause a stir, and our favorite couples and personalities this season.
 
We also talk about the finale of the Golden Bachelor, which was incredibly boring and infuriating at the same time. We discuss all the details of the finale and the preview of Taylor Frankie Paul as the new Bachelorette.
 
And we finish off with a tangential discussion of this season of DWTS!
 
The pod will be taking a break for Thanksgiving break, some travel and the arrival of Mary’s new BABY, so follow us on Instagram (@canistealyouforaminutepod) for updates on when we’ll be back!
 
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Tuesday Nov 11, 2025

We’re into week 2 of Love Island AU, and we’re breaking down all the drama, including Lacey’s extremely annoying behavior, the couples we want to see more of, and how delightful this season is overall. We also talk through the penultimate episode of the Golden Bachelor, which offered us pretty much nothing and just prolongs a season we wish was already over.
 
We also drop some recent Love Island USA cast tea, revelations from Golden Bachelor Gerry’s recent memoir (as well as Theresa’s reaction), and the HGTV/Bachelor Nation crossover show we cannot wait to watch.
 
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Tuesday Nov 04, 2025

We wrap up this season of Love Is Blind with a recap of the incredibly disappointing reunion, featuring the basketball matchup no one wanted. We discuss who had the best and worst showings, what substances everyone was on, and why Netflix can’t manage to give us a decent reunion ever.
 
And Love Island Australia is back! We discuss the first four episodes, including grating influencer accents, women who can’t learn other people’s names, the worst fake teeth ever in the world, off-camera cast drama/tea, and the strongest couple we’ve seen in a long time.
 
We touch on the Women Tell All, which offered us essentially nothing and less than 10 minutes of Mel, which was maybe the best thing for everyone?
 
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Tuesday Oct 28, 2025

The Love is Blind Denver wedding episode has landed, and we break down every cringeworthy moment, a couple standout family member reactions, and what we think might possibly be the best part of the season. We also discuss the off-camera tea that has emerged about the cast, including who may be announcing their baby at the reunion.
 
We also discuss Mel’s hometown episode, his likely final pick, who we want for the next Golden Bachelorette, and the weird vibes between the women this season.
 
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Tuesday Oct 21, 2025

As we approach the final weddings on Love Is Blind Denver, we unpack all the drama from the most recent two episodes, including two breakups, a lot of toxic behavior, and predictions about where we’ll be by the time the reunion airs. We also discuss the complete dismissal of half of Mel’s women on The Golden Bachelor and why we’re hoping this season will end next week.
 
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Tuesday Oct 14, 2025

The horrors in Denver continue on Love Is Blind, and we break down our thoughts on all the couples as they make their way out of the pods and into their cohabitating lives. Who will make it? Who should end it now? And everything in between. We also talk about the Golden Bachelor, and Gerry Turner’s newest project. 
 
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